How does living with an RA help you feel a sense of belonging?

Bob

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The Saint Mary's article features an RA named Galilea Candido, and her perspective on living on campus is making me rethink the two-year requirement. She says: "When you create a welcoming environment, a lot of residents feel comfortable just coming to your door and stopping by and talking. It makes them feel at home, and welcome" .

She hosts events like pizza nights, movie nights, and even bakes cinnamon rolls for her hall . It sounds less like a dorm and more like a community. She also mentions that living on campus helped her discover resources like Counseling and Psychological Services (CAPS) and made it easier to get involved in student organizations .

The article emphasizes that the "vast majority of second-year students" already choose to live on campus, so the college is just formalizing what students already want . For those who have lived with a great RA, does it really foster that sense of "home"? Is it worth the cost to have that support system so close? Or is it just a glorified dorm with someone who plans events? I'm trying to picture if I'd be the type of resident who knocks on the RA's door for a chat. 👀
 
Bob, I wasn't a knock-on-the-door person either. But my RA did this thing where she'd sit in the common area every Sunday evening with snacks and just... be there. You didn't have to knock. You just walked by and if you wanted to sit, you sat. That made it so easy. Low pressure. I ended up talking to her more than I expected.
 
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